Everyone is an individual precious person with his/her particular abilities and skills. No one was born as a loser. Everyone can excel in something. The tragedy of life is that many people will not find or not do what they are made for and struggle all their life in positions that do not satisfy them.
Main decisions are usually made during high school. Big struggles continue in some college and university students.
=> Pressure in school is one of the main contributing factors to depression.
If this is also your problem, now is the time to change your situation!